Another reflection I have is about the habit everyone seem to have to ask and answer ”How are you, Im fine thanks and you?”. People do it in Sweden to but I think its more common here. Im divided about it, on the one hand I consider it useless to ask without really be able or interested to hear the answer. On the other hand it at least open up some kind of possibility to talk; when you are asked about it you can say more then fine or good. I appreciate it in the family where we live – her it feels like a sign of real concern and and I feel I have opportunity to answer honestly. How do you feel about this habit dear friends?